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Dear Angie,How exciting for you to be entering a new stage of life – adulthood! There are many things I wish for you as you continue your journey through life. One of those things I wish for you is that you may build your home and have joy in hospitality. This home for now is in our parents’ home, someday it may be a college dorm room, a small apartment, or a family house. The important thing is that it becomes a home.
Proverbs 14:1 says that “Every wise woman buildeth her house.” In chapter nine, the wise build their house with purpose and design, preparing a table to serve others. In making a home, you will need wisdom. You will need God’s leadership to make it a true home, a place that draws others to Him. I pray that your home will be a place that points others to Christ. Designing your home will take thought and care. A home doesn’t come about by chance, but on purpose by careful planning and by prayer.
I pray that your home will be a place of peace and refuge. When people enter your home, may the worries of the world slip away. May all who enter know of the peace that serving God brings. May it be a place of encouragement for others, when they have been weighted down by struggles, or torn down by those that seek to harm them.
I pray that your home will be a place of joy. May you have a consistent inner joy that spreads throughout your home. As the “Lady of the House” you will be the one to set the tone and the mood of your home. You will have that responsibility. May the tense times be eased with a generous dose of laughter.
I pray that your home will be a sanctuary for you, and hopefully someday for a husband and children. It should be a sanctuary from a troubled world, but also a sanctuary for worship to God. May your family altar be strong and may God’s Word be taught each day. May it be a holy place where God is always glorified.
I pray that your home will be a place of order. You will be the one to bring this beauty and order to your home. This also takes care and planning. One important part of order is learning to create beauty around you by bringing things into your home that add to the beauty. Another important part of order is removing the things that bring disorder.
Building your home will take discipline and hard work. It won’t always be easy, and you may not always have all that you desire to create your home. In those times, you will need ingenuity and creativity. May you find joy in the challenge. Sometimes creating this home will become habitual and mundane. May you have discipline and keep the end result in view, though sometimes the path seems hard.
I wish you beauty in your home. May you seek to build your home and your life on the foundation that God has given in his Word. I love you very much and am so proud of the Godly woman you are becoming.
Love,
Chari


